Hi guys, ask ko lang how to determine if my girlfriend is lying or not. I mean. I trust her naman but sometimes I doubt it. Bale ganito po kasi. Ako po 4th boyfriend niya. Then she told me I was her first kiss. I believe it naman since when I kiss her. She just close her eyes. I am the one who's making the moves. Di naman importante sakin if I'm not her first kiss. Ang hinahabol ko kasi dito yung honesty. Nagsimula yung doubt ko on our second date. Bale we kissed again. But this time. She's too aggressive. She's very good at kissing. Sabi niya nakikita niya daw sa mga nababasa niya. So I believe it. Then on the following dates. Nagulat ako. Nilagyan niya ako ng hickey. And she's too good at it. It's my first to put on hickey on a girl. And natagalan ako at nahirapan ako kasi di ko talaga alam kung paano yun. But she does it very well. Sabi niya nagpapractice siya sa braso niya. Lagi daw niyang nilalagyan ng hickey. So naniwala naman ako syempre. She told me that I am her first on all of the things we've done. But I doubt it. I mean. She's like experienced. I am quite experienced but I can't do it very well like she does. She's too good for a first timer. Di ko naman siya pwede iconfront about dun directly since nasabi niya na rin naman na ako ang first niya. Pag tinanong ko ulit baka isipin niya na I don't trust her. It's not that I don't trust her talaga. I just want to know if my suspicions are true. If ever it's true. Then I'll let it pass. If I'm wrong. Then I'm lucky. If you want any questions or clarifications. Feel free to ask. Thank you! :)
SARILI MO LANG KASE INIISIP MO SIR.
Try to see the situation from her perspective. Kung nagsisinungaling man sya, bat nya yun ginagawa?
1. You might just actually be the kind of man that she's been waiting for all this time.
2. She wants to impress you and make you feel special.
3. She wants you believing that you're the first at everything. She wants to bloat up your ego and give you assurance that she's yours and all yours for all eternity.
4. She wants you to think highly of her. She doesnt want you thinking of her as some used up second-hand woman.
5. FFS, she adores you and will do anything to look good as your arm candy. She only wants you to be proud of her.
Eh tangina lang pag hindi ka pa humanga sa ginagawa nyang effort eh ewan ko nalang. Besides, does it effing matter what her past was? Isnt love about acceptance? Di mu na kelangan i-confront sya kung totoo man yung sinasabi. It will only bring her self-esteem down by admitting to her "fantasies". Kaya kung lalaki ka at tanggap mo naman sya for all she is, then suck it up.
HAPPY SATURDAY TO ALL!! :)