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Can I share :)
How will I know if true love talaga ang nararamdaman ko to someone?
I work in a BPO Company in Ortigas. A typical "Call Center Agent" although our Line of Business (LOB) is a Non-Voice Account. Good company, good community, very nice co-workers, easy job compared to other LOBs. Working without worries I may say, until I met a co-worker who got transferred to our LOB. Lets name her Ayn She is just an ordinary girl, yeah she is single, mysterious yet charming for me. When I first saw her, she was nothing but just a typical officemate. Until get to talk with her. Time goes by, I started taking glances of Ayn, I get this impression of her that makes me happy when she is around. I dont know why, but thats how I feel whenever she is around. I love her voice, whenever she talks or laughs its gives me this light feeling. I rarely talk with her at work, but then I started approaching her from time to time just to try and get conversations with her, but when she is in front me, I always get a loss of words to say. So less talk, more actions. I tried to impress her with my actions like voluntarily helping her if she needs assistance, greeting her everyday, smiling at her whenever we glance each other. I always try to do her a favor. I tried communicating with her through our office Email, and comes the time I asked for her celphone number. She ignored it at first, but the following day I asked for it again saying "Nasaan na yung hinihingi ko?", she eventually gave her number through Email although she states not to give her number to other people.
And there it goes, I'm happy yes, and through text I started communicating with her. In simple messages I tried to express how I felt towards her. She reply short messages but that enough for me. She is always being teased/picked at on our work, but I know thats just like an icebreaker at work. Then one time she told me that she is started to get irritated when being teased at work. Since we work at an office setting, "chismis" is a common thing, our officemates linked me to her, but thats just in a short span of time. But thats when things started to get awkward. But still I continued communicating with her. But I stopped approaching her at work, because I know we will be teased again. I simply communicate with her through Email and txt. So recently I tried to step up a notch. I asked her if I could join her on Break, she said yes, but its too awkward. We need to avoid getting "issues" at work so we simply went on Break and I eat with her at the pantry. As usual, dont know what to say, i'm at loss of words again when i'm with her. Oh well. The truth is I want to ask her to go out this thursday, its Thanksgiving at US on the 28th so its non-working day. Since its awkward, not much chat and our break ended without anything. And i'm frustrated.
Ok. mahirap gumawa ng moves at manligaw sa babae na gusto mo sa isang environment na kung saan ang mga officemates mo ay mga isip bata na pinapalaki ang mga simpleng bagay at ginagawaan ng issue ang kanilang mga nakikita.
So I went home frustrated, sad and down. But still I texted her "Sleep and tight and sweet dreams..." in which she eventually replied back. My heart is so heavy that time. You know that feeling where in you didnt achieve what you have planed, you thought everything is perfect but...no...So I made up my mind...today when I communicated with her, and I used that opportunity...through txt I honestly told her everything...
Me: Sleep tight and sweet dreams.
Her: Kaw din...it's already late...
Me: I cant sleep...I kept thinking about you.
Her: Weh...matulog ka na nga.
Me: Its hard to believe right? But you are always on my mind.
Her: Ahh ok...i dont know what am i going to say.
Me: You dont have to say anything...its hard to believe someone like me...but somehow...I would like you to know that...I like you...
Me: I dont want to lie to you and I would rather be honest and tell you now than never...Im sorry...I cant help falling in love to you...
Her: Hindi mo pa ako ganun kakilala right?...I really appreciate you for being honest to say what you feel...lets get to know each other muna...baka nabibigla ka lang...
Me: I know...ang hirap kasi e...baka kasi mamaya di ko na masabi sayo...palagi nalang ako ganito simula nung nakilala kita...pasensya ka na ha alam ko nagulat ka...
Her: Thats ok...nothing has changed...ganito pa din tayo...you're still the closest guy to me...
Well atleast I get to tell her, and i felt relieved. And also after that, I asked her to go out this thursday. Although she has plans with her friends that day but she could consider. So currently im waiting for her reply hehehe...
Well there it goes...i dont know where this would go...but i know to myself...I do have feelings for her...
Awwwww... Its a tamahome story - pure vanilla version. Ahahahahahaa..
Alright, firstly I'm really surprised may naligaw pa dito.. Lately eh has been na yata itong thread na ito. Ahahahahaha..
Plain and simple story really. Are you in love with her? Maybe not yet. "Strongly attracted to her" is more like it. What I'm more curious to know is if there's a company policy against having a romantic relationship with a co-worker. If yes, then you really do have a situation on your hands. If no, then I suggest you stop wasting your time and openly declare that you are interested in her. Yung mga tipong hihirit ka ng pasimple kapag tinutukso kayong dalawa ng: "Langya, nakikipagkaibigan lang eh mag-jowa na agad? Antayin nyo naman na sagutin muna ako!" And she'll go countering by saying: "Urur, manligaw ka muna!" I'm sure na tawanan ang resulta nun sa office. Instant diffusal of a tight situation. of course, she has to be in on it for it to work!
Mukha namang marunong ka manligaw pero dinadaga ka lang kasi type na type mo yung girlalu mo. Its so nice when text messaging offers you such a convenient way to say how you feel without really having to look that person in the eye noh? But I have to warn you, women prefer men who can face them and tell them how he feels. So I suggest you take things out of texting and bring them out when the two of you are in person. Another thing about texting, if its such a convenient tool for confessing, it has also become such a convenient way to break up. Be wary of this...
Tama yung sinabi nya sa iyo: "Baka nabibigla ka lang?!" And since sinabi nya sa iyo na hindi mo pa siya gaanong kilala, ask her to give you a chance na makilala siya ng masinsinan. Tutal siya na rin naman ang nagsabi di ba?
Aside from this, all I can say is: "HAVE FUN!" Its really so nice to fall in love.. Ahahahahahaha.. Let's just not talk about the breaking up part yet.. =p
Thank you for reading and for the advice...
Now to give an update, its goes down to this...
She just txted me awhile ago,something happened at work. I was absent today at work. She said that one of my officemate suddenly blurted out in the whole area that I am having a communication with her(Ayn) and this guy our officemate said that I was Emailing her and I asked for her number. Which is true though...but like I said on my post, sa office namin mga simple bagay pinapalaki at ginagawaan ng issue. It might be a joke or an icebreaker at work during that time, but I know She felt embarassed that time. And she told me when that happened...she denied everything to everyone...Now she txted me that she felt bad and its unfair to me...
How will I react? I already replied to her and told her that I am not mad if she denied it,its a defensive act of females i know that, i do understand her situation, she is always being picked/teased at work plus here i am in love to this girl,yet i know i am just one of the reason why she would be teased. Now how will I handle this when I get back to work? of course questions from my officemates will come flying...arrrrrgh...i dont what to do...
Sana lang di mauwi katulad kay tamahome, pareho pang japanese sounding names, hehehehe.
It seems you've found yourself a very popular girl at work! I don't think she's being picked on at all! Rather, siya yung darling ng mga tao na kaya nila niloloko parati is because natutuwa sila sa kanya at sa kanyang mga reaction. She should actually be happy to be the subject of such attention because in reality, kaya ganyan yung mga tao sa paligid pag dating sa kanya eh worried sila sa kanya. Hindi nila yan ginagawa dahil bully sila, but instead eh natutuwa sila sa kanya.
Now where do you come in? Syempre ikaw yung love interest. And honestly hindi nila tatantanan yan until umamin na nga kayong dalawa. Does that mean na may pag-asa ka sa kanya? Who knows? Meron naman siguro pero huwag mo madaliin. Kelangan mo ba manligaw ng tahasan? Not really. But I do suggest you move discreetly when it comes to spending time with her.
Be happy that she told you the truth of what had happened at the office. Just tell her that you're glad na sinabi nya sa iyo yung totoo and that you appreciate the fact na naisip ka nya. Aiyeeeeee! Then dapat eh habang nariyan ka eh magpa-deliver ka ng roses sa office nyo habang absent ka.. Dapat eh anonymous (kunyari) para masaya silang lahat sa office. Yun nga lang eh pulang-pula pati pwet nung girl mo pagkakuha nya nun! Ahahahahaha!
So much for being discreet ba? Hindi naman. So long as anonymous yung gulay mo eh may lusot pa yun. In other words, you can actually fabricate a rival na pag-iisipan ng mga tao sa office. Ikaw naman itong kunyari magtatanong-tanong kung may idea sila kung sino kaya yung nagpapadala ng kung ano-ano sa lady love mo.. Pero both of you know na ikaw parehas yun.. Ahahahahahaha. Saya noh?
How about off days and weekends? That's the fun part.. There's always a good movie or somewhere good to go on your off day. The best excuse is to go Christmas shopping with her. Its the season after all.. You'll score loads of points when you carry her stuff around, and you'll get to impress her on your gift suggestions. you'll get to talk about Christmas past over dinner or merienda.. You might even find yourself at their doorstep at the end of the day since she'll need some help to bring home all that stuff di ba?!
Fun fun fun! Ahahahahahahaha!
I just love vanilla stories!
I don't really mind a vanilla tamahome story. Its what happens next that worries me - yung ilo-lock ng mods yung thread dahil sa inappropriate content! Haaay.. Or yung tipong papasukin ng trolls at sisimulan nilang i-bash yung isa't-isa na kesyo gay-ish yung comments and other shit..
Lets just try to keep things clean para kahit papaano eh matutuwa din yung mods habang binabasa nila yung responses natin! Malamang eh pagtsi-tsismisan din nila yan dun sa threads nila. Ahahahahahaha!
^Pero sana mas maganda kung true to life na talaga, haha.
Agree, clean posts and no flamebait, para tuloy lang and at least nabuhay na naman ang thread, hehe.
-- edited by zwischenzug on Nov 28 2013, 11:35 AM
Its been a while since I have seen a tamahome story XD LOL!!!
atras abante ka lang brad. nalabas mo na cards mo. put some brakes in and see if the girl is also interested in you.
Hayaan mo, mag-post kami ng pics ng EB naming ngayong December! Ehehehehehe.
Tara na at gusto daw makakita ni Alexis ng pics natin na nag-e-EB!
Magkikita kami ni Jimboy sa Sat. Pwede ba kayo?
Text mo ko
eh di kayo na.. ibalik ang linimot na samahan..lol
Nabasa ko nga yung text mo. Pasensya na di kita nareplyan, nasa work kasi ako nun. sige, tetext kita. San ba tayo? Pwede ka ba ng 9pm?
di pa naman kwentong sawi o nawalan ng lovelife ang kwento eh. XD
dun pa yan sa kabila. hehe.
Not just one but two!
Ahahahahaha! Toingkz! Like na like!
Astig talaga ng idol ko! Kahit saan mo dalhin never naze-zero! Ahahahahaha!
-- edited by Godai_Yusaku on Dec 01 2013, 11:32 PM